All posts by Don Miller

About Don Miller

A lifetime Las Vegas resident and father of three grown children, Don spent 15 years as a licensed psychotherapist and speaker in private and hospital practices. Prior, he was part owner of an award-winning family advertising agency. Having fallen into addiction to crystal methamphetamine several years ago, losing everything to the drug, he has been clean since 9/4/11 and more sober about life with each passing day. The stories and content of this site are the accumulating epiphanies of his journey into sobriety, shared here to inspire others, especially those who remain embroiled in addictive battles of their own. LifeMeansSoMuch, the song title by Chris Rice (and you are highly encouraged to download it on ITunes or YouTube,) is the lyrical inspiration for the content of this site. Don is currently a life coach, author, speaker and manager at a non-profit, HopeLink of Southern Nevada.

Gaslighting.

The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness, since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them.
‭‭Romans‬ ‭1‬:‭18‬-‭20‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Many people today are stupefied by the things some share as truth.

Eons of what the history of humanity has regarded as basic facts are now being questioned without the benefit of evidence required of other assertions.

The gaslighting can make you crazy.

And if you’re God, pretty angry.

They are like toddlers defying truths purely for defiance’s sake just to assert that nobody’s the boss of them.

It takes an incredible amount of determination to hold tight to a lie in the face of the truth, yet some do so at any cost, indeed, costing them both their sanity and their eternity.

Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
‭‭Romans‬ ‭1‬:‭32‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Satan is the great deceiver and the father of lies. And in this increasingly fallen world, people are desperate to know who and what to believe in.

Truth is truth, regardless of who believes it to be.

Be testimony-ready always, and share the truth about Jesus to others like their life depends on it.

Because it does.

Immediate gratification.


Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. 

‭‭Luke‬ ‭6‬:‭23‬ ‭NIV‬‬

It might just be that the greatest threat to the gospel  taking root these days is immediate gratification. 

Ours is a world of such plenty that we’ve eroded our own patience.

Though patience is a godly virtue, it’s become among the least popular. 

Great is your reward in heaven—glorious as it is—means the expected payoff may arrive much later than sooner. 

We’re not programmed for that. 

Waiting upon anyone is inconvenient at best. Waiting upon the Lord is worse. 

Shouldn’t an omnipotent God skip the waiting room for those he loves? Concierge treatment should be the norm instead of the exception. 

Self, again, is at the heart of this type of thinking, as if we deserve better consideration. 

Have we learned nothing?

If God promises something, he always delivers. Rest in that truth and be anxious for nothing. 

Great is your reward in heaven. 

In one ear and out the other.

Go to these people and say, “You will be ever hearing but never understanding; you will be ever seeing but never perceiving. For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.’”
‭‭Acts‬ ‭28‬:‭26‬-‭27‬ ‭NIV‬‬

In one ear and out the other.

Arguments and evidences, no matter how persuasively presented, oftentimes have little to no effect on senses seared shut by ‘truths’ presented by the world.

Whether faith, politics, or even travel advice (read Paul’s unheeded advice about God’s warning and promise) at some point, you have to move on to others whose hearts and minds are unafraid to change and whose pride hasn’t yet walled them in.

When you present the way to save someone’s life, soul, or even way of government, and they won’t listen, it moves out of your responsibility to report and wholly into their choice to accept.

Motivation from a place of love, care and compassion is never lost in the effort but the fact remains that it still takes two to tango, and there are plenty of others out there eager for a dance partner

A fish story.

Then Jesus said to Simon, “Don’t be afraid; from now on you will fish for people.” So they pulled their boats up on shore, left everything and followed him.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭5‬:‭10‬-‭11‬ ‭NIV‬‬

No bait, just a net. 

The preferred, most efficient method of fishing was to capture an entire school of fish in one toss. 

Then he said to his disciples,“The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few

Matthew 9:37

Just as Jesus’ instruction where to cast their nets for a full catch, discipleship for Simon (Peter,) James and John began with a miracle. 

Large numbers of people are lost, caught up in their sins, just waiting for a net. 

No bait, no sneaky lures, just a net of love and salvation found in Jesus. 

While not everyone is called to travel to far away mission fields, we are all called to be disciples who will fish in local lakes and ponds within reach. 

Leave the distractions in your way and cast your net into your own ponds and become a disciple equipped with the good news of God’s salvation. 

Tell your own fish story. 

Desperate and imposing.

Some men came carrying a paralyzed man on a mat and tried to take him into the house to lay him before Jesus. When they could not find a way to do this because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and lowered him on his mat through the tiles into the middle of the crowd, right in front of Jesus. 

The desperate and imposing faith of friends. 

When Jesus saw their faith, he said, “Friend, your sins are forgiven.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭5‬:‭18‬-‭20‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Never underestimate the power of your circle. 

So sold out and convinced of the power of Jesus, it was the man’s friends willing to go to great lengths on his behalf, that resulted in his healing. 

Recently hospitalized myself, the most important outcome wasn’t so much my healing as the discovery of my own circle. 

My nearest and dearest friends and even Facebook people from around the globe held me up to Jesus in faith that I would emerge to walk out of that hospital whole and healed. 

Who in this life can you count on to carry your mat?

Being and staying connected with people who pray for you and are willing to lift you up is the very heart of Christian community. 

Get connected and stay connected. 

Be a reliable link in a circle you can count on, and one who can also count on you at desperate times to help carry their mat with a desperate and imposing faith. 

Time’s up.

The ax is already at the root of the trees, and every tree that does not produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire.
‭‭Luke‬ ‭3‬:‭9‬ ‭NIV‬‬


While it’s a book about hope, the Bible is also a book about the hard truth. 


Chris Rice, probably my favorite singer/songwriter, has a song called “Naive:”


“How long until You defend Your name and set the record right?
And how far will You allow the human race to run and hide?
And how much can You tolerate our weaknesses


Before You step into our sky blue and say “That’s quite enough!” and our time is up?


It was one year ago today when, as with every early morning, I wrote my daily 60 second study “Terrible times” reposted again this morning on my website. 


These rapidly deteriorating days call more for hard truths over hope.


Producing fruit from our faith has never been more critical. 


Our time is almost up and we need to live our lives wholly in that truth. 

Terrible times.

There will be terrible times in the last days.
People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power.
Have nothing to do with such people. -2Timothy3

Argue all you like that these are the last days. But frankly, last days have been with us for millennia since the first days and the signs are nothing new, just more evident and more laden with examples with the passage of time.

‘Having nothing to do with such people’ is a harder route to navigate as these people proliferate and insidiously take down what remaining truth and civility we have left.

The truth becomes increasingly difficult to discern but they are known by the fruit they produce.

Terrible times breed some terrible people, but terrible times also breed increasing discernment and resilience in those whose only end game is to follow Jesus.

Senior citizens day.

They’re not online, in a tweet or a post.
Not at the store, don’t shop from home or at the mall at all.
Not on the road, in the car, on the bus or on a ride to anywhere.
Not at work, on the job, working hard or hard at work.
Not at a movie, out to eat, at a friend’s or having a drink.
They’re not around, nobody’s looking and no one’s missing their company.
They’re invisible.

They’ve not much time, but enough for you.
Rich in history with stories true.
They haven’t a lot but will give to you
A rich adventure before they’re through
If you seek them out with time to spend
and make them visible before their end.

They are almost buried treasures awaiting your discovery.

Enrich your life, make a new friend and a new story.

August 21st is National Senior Citizen’s Day.

Coming through.

Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout. He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was on him. 

It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Messiah.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭2‬:‭25‬-‭26‬ ‭NIV‬‬

God keeps his promises. 

Having been led to the temple, Simeon finally and prophetically held that very messiah Jesus in his hands and said: 

Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant in peace.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭2‬:‭29‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Promises made, promises kept is not a new thing or political slogan. 

Here we see a nobody who for years lived according to a faith that God is indeed who and what he said he is. 

And God came through. 

If you’ve lived with a godly vow for something, keep on the path toward it. Eventually God will keep his word. 

And the child grew and became strong; he was filled with wisdom, and the grace of God was on him.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭2‬:‭40‬ ‭NIV‬‬

No one should have no one.

Carol called.

It’s been several years since I heard from her.

At 85 now, she was once a client I helped through some really tough years.

Now in a wheelchair, she said she’d made it through the pandemic while most of her friends and neighbors had succumbed.

I explained I’ve been working from home for a couple years writing grants and doing donor relations work. She said she found my number in some papers and “just needed to hear your voice…someone’s voice today.”

She was always a tough, independent character who could take a joke and dish one better right back. But today her voice was different.

She has no one anymore. Friends and family are all gone and she doesn’t get out. I had found her a terrier pup way back but Trixie crossed the bridge several months ago.

Small talk wound down when in closing she said “It’s good to hear your voice.”

As we hung up I vowed to phone her for a chat on Friday mornings when I’m off work and while I’m still six feet above.

She’s just 20 years older than me and realizing that fact was deafening.

No one should have no one.