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About Don Miller

A lifetime Las Vegas resident and father of three grown children, Don spent 15 years as a licensed psychotherapist and speaker in private and hospital practices. Prior, he was part owner of an award-winning family advertising agency. Having fallen into addiction to crystal methamphetamine several years ago, losing everything to the drug, he has been clean since 9/4/11 and more sober about life with each passing day. The stories and content of this site are the accumulating epiphanies of his journey into sobriety, shared here to inspire others, especially those who remain embroiled in addictive battles of their own. LifeMeansSoMuch, the song title by Chris Rice (and you are highly encouraged to download it on ITunes or YouTube,) is the lyrical inspiration for the content of this site. Don is currently a life coach, author, speaker and manager at a non-profit, HopeLink of Southern Nevada.

The sinner’s prayer shift.

Go and cry out to the gods you have chosen. Let them save you when you are in trouble!” But the Israelites said to the Lord, “We have sinned. Do with us whatever you think best, but please rescue us now.” Then they got rid of the foreign gods among them and served the Lord.

And he could bear Israel’s misery no longer.

‭‭Judges‬ ‭10‬:‭14‬-‭16‬ ‭NIV‬‬

The heart of God is one of repeated betrayal followed by repeated forgiveness.

His people repeatedly left him to serve other gods despite his miraculous works in their favor.

Stubborn and rebellious, they always ran back to his care and protection and he was merciful.

They merited no favor but he provided it nonetheless.

Not unlike these Old Testament accounts, the New Testament is about Jesus offering salvation and eternal life despite our sinfulness on repeat.

Belief in Christ changes you.

Days of wholesale rejection of God by believers was essentially over, replaced by an orientation to righteousness and obedience.

Not perfect, but now always trying.

That critical shift in our thinking and orientation occurring at the words of what we call ‘the sinner’s prayer’ is all God needs to redeem us and to begin his good work within us.

Old Testament accounts often foreshadow reports in the New Testament.

If you think about it, becoming a follower of Christ and being known as a Christian is probably the best example of ‘names have been changed to protect the innocent.’

Who will you serve?

But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living.

But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

‭‭Joshua‬ ‭24‬:‭15‬ ‭NIV‬‬

There comes a time when all must take a stand for their beliefs.

Some will identify with false gods and proudly so to their ultimate demise.

As for you and your house, who do you serve and how does that service take shape?

Leading your own tribe obedient to God is a formidable challenge largely dependent upon the character of the leader.

In the workplace, we know that employees don’t quit because of the organization but do quit because of the leader. That’s a lot of pressure.

Truth be told, not all members of my tribe were enamored with my leadership and consequently do not serve my God. It’s my biggest regret and my biggest hope that my current Godly leadership may someday repair.

Freedom of choice is divinely given everyone.

It will lead you to an empty destination or it will lead you to a fullness of passion and purpose.

Either way, leadership is the crucial directing element. And where mistakes have been made, God is the great fixer through Jesus.

Not today.

Usually I post my Bible study takeaways each morning.
Not today.

For those of you who have adopted these as your morning devotions, thanks and think on this as today’s substitute.

“I am the Lord your God” appears hundreds of times in the first 5 books of the Bible, called the Torah.

The phrase “I am the Lord your God” serves as a reminder of God’s faithfulness and power, and encourages people to trust in God’s ability to provide and deliver, which he demonstrated over and over again.

Most notable, the phrase opens the giving of the 10 commandments.

God’s very personal introduction is the bond he makes with his people. You are included in his reference.

It’s both humbling and satisfying to know the God of the universe establishes his ownership of us so many times with that phrase.

Think on that. I do all the time.

Have a wonderful day today. 

Deciding.

On the day the Lord gave the Amorites over to Israel, Joshua said to the Lord in the presence of Israel: “Sun, stand still over Gibeon, and you, moon, over the Valley of Aijalon.”

So the sun stood still, and the moon stopped, till the nation avenged itself on its enemies, as it is written in the Book of Jashar. The sun stopped in the middle of the sky and delayed going down about a full day.

There has never been a day like it before or since, a day when the Lord listened to a human being. Surely the Lord was fighting for Israel!”

‭‭Joshua‬ ‭10‬:‭12‬-‭14‬ ‭NIV‬‬

The extended daylight allowed the Israelites a decisive victory over the Amorites and underscored Joshua’s unique relationship with God as an undefeatable ally of Israel.

Not every winning strategy is initiated by God. He allows and welcomes the initiative and wisdom of his people to carry out his will.

All too often we put off decisions in wait to hear from God when he clearly has already equipped us to think and decide prayerfully for ourselves.

Hasty decisions are often those stuck in and overwhelmed with emotions. But if you can reason to a good decision or conclusion, you should. There’s little sense to be made for further delay.

And leave some wiggle room for an unexpected miracle or two provided by God as a reward for your wisdom, boldness and confidence.

Is seeing believing?

So when the people broke camp to cross the Jordan, the priests carrying the ark of the covenant went ahead of them.

Now the Jordan is at flood stage all during harvest. Yet as soon as the priests who carried the ark reached the Jordan and their feet touched the water’s edge, the water from upstream stopped flowing.

It piled up in a heap a great distance away, at a town called Adam in the vicinity of Zarethan, while the water flowing down to the Sea of the Arabah (that is, the Dead Sea) was completely cut off.

So the people crossed over opposite Jericho.

The priests who carried the ark of the covenant of the Lord stopped in the middle of the Jordan and stood on dry ground, while all Israel passed by until the whole nation had completed the crossing on dry ground.

‭‭Joshua‬ ‭3‬:‭14‬-‭17‬ ‭NIV‬‬

They all knew they were to cross the river, yet none knew it would happen in the same way as their Red Sea crossing out of Egypt.

I think we all long to be part of a grand miracle only God could craft. And twice in a lifetime? What a faith-builder!

But blessed is he who has not seen, yet believes.—John 20:29

Today, most of us rely on a spiritual diet consisting of God’s promises and daily provisions we rarely view through a miraculous lens. At least not water-parting miraculous.

But the fact that a perfect creator would seek out and redeem an imperfect creation is kinda miraculous in itself. And that his only condition for the gift of eternal life is to believe it to be true and to act that belief out in our lives is also a bit of a miracle to say the very least.

So until the actual seas part ahead of your journey, humble yourself.

Reframe coincidences, outcomes of your prayers, and rescues against all odds as personal evidences of the living God in your actual life and boldly cross over to the other side on dry land and into your promised land.

Clean slates.

Tomorrow is just another day.

A fresh beginning to a new year, a clean page on life’s calendar, a symbolic start to better intentions, clarity in focus, or maybe nothing more than a simple sentimental morning to contemplate the parade of your life thus far.

I hope you will use the day off work with a little extra time to clear slates and imagine how the new year might unfold for you.

Others will wake desperate for aspirin and coffee, football distractions or to clean up wild night messes before sleeping away the day’s remains from which they only recently arrived home.

I suspect more than a sober few will be thinking deeper thoughts throughout the day. Plans for self-restraint, how to be a little nicer, quit a bad habit, or start one better.

For curious and contemplative minds the options are limitless.

So, applause to those making use of this new day as a personal prompt for positive change, at least in thought, if not in deed. It’s a good day for it.

Some require an external catalyst, a nodal event, or an arbitrary date of a year to propel them into deeper thoughts and richer inner lives.

Shocked or startled, they may shake to their cores, begging for change, repeating that awful truth that once again, they waited for something to force their hand.

Regardless, there is a glorious redemption that the only difference between last year’s regrets and this year’s successes is just another day, like today, and how we will use it.

Plan to succeed.

Joshua told the people, “Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you.””

‭‭Joshua‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Crossing the Jordan River to claim the land promised by God was as much an anticipated turning point for the Israelites as was their exodus from Egyptian slavery.

They were preceded by Levites carrying the ark of the Lord which was a miracle itself as its weight was crazy heavy.

They were ready. Communities ahead were nothing short of petrified, and the revered ark of the covenant was advancing ahead of their victories.

The long awaited moment had arrived.

There’s something powerful to be said for having a plan sanctioned by God with assured victory in your path.

For some, the new year symbolizes manifestations of new goals and big changes.

Cheers to them.

Cheers also to those who have faithfully and successfully executed bite-sized plans all year long and enjoy the equally divine results of a disciplined life.

Whatever gets you to your promised land best, may the Lord bless your journey and give 2025 victoriously over and into your hands.

Not a suggestion.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.

‭‭Joshua‬ ‭1‬:‭9‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Some scholars count a total of 613 commandments from God in the Bible.

While most have been commuted or replaced in the New Testament with the death and resurrection of Jesus, those that remain age timelessly.

Fear and discouragement are emotions circumstantially dealt to all of us and are notorious faith killers: intentional monkey wrenches delivered by the enemy.

Confidence and conviction that our Lord is always with us through every circumstance is the sufficient solution to the emotions of fear and discouragement.

Not a suggested remedy but a commanded one.

Whether it’s a February, an October, or the entrance to a new year, the unknown is always upon us.

An intentional, deliberate, and ever deepening journey into faith and following God equips us for each encounter of the unknown with a strength and courage we can’t summon by ourselves but only through a vital, living relationship with God.

So once again, connection to and with our creator is essential for getting through and past every circumstance.

Ring in the new year with confidence in this commandment recorded in Joshua, and empowering your future with all its unknowns.

Who wants to change?

It’s irrational to want change in the world and its programs and not expect your circumstances to have to change at least some to accommodate those changes.

This new administration is all about creating second-order and third-order changes that will make our nation more structurally sound and resilient for generations to come.

While changing might be a little individually uncomfortable for a moment, continuing on the same path will be grossly more uncomfortable for all future lifetimes ahead.

Be the generation willing to accommodate change and its temporary discomforts as our gift to all who follow.

Holy Moses.

Upon the death of Moses at 120 years old, the baton was passed.

Now Joshua son of Nun was filled with the spirit of wisdom because Moses had laid his hands on him. So the Israelites listened to him and did what the Lord had commanded Moses. Since then, no prophet has risen in Israel like Moses, whom the Lord knew face to face, who did all those signs and wonders the Lord sent him to do in Egypt—to Pharaoh and to all his officials and to his whole land. For no one has ever shown the mighty power or performed the awesome deeds that Moses did in the sight of all Israel.”

‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭34‬:‭9‬-‭12‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Death brings new life.

While Moses ascended to the heavenly promised land, Joshua continued the Lord’s work in the promised land on earth.

Passing of the torch is difficult but not as challenging as the weight of receiving it.

Just as Solomon shunned all other possessions preferring the gift of wisdom instead, Joshua was endowed with wisdom to continue leading the Israelites in the ways of Moses and, indeed, of God.

Your highest and potentially most profound desire lies in your prayer for godly wisdom.

Wisdom’s guidance conquers all and creates abundance for all.

Make pursuit of wisdom central to your purpose every day in prayer.