Not everyone wants help. The longer they remain homeless the more adaptive they become. Life on the fringe hardens the heart and soul enough to buffer against any change.
But Sean is back. Says he missed a call from HopeLink I set up for him this week.
To those of us in this line of work, the drive to help is no trivial pursuit but until you can be trusted, you play their game awhile longer. At some point, words and actions stick like chewing gum to a shoe on a hot summer day and they’re forced to stop just long enough to consider the solution and the One who offers it.
And while some homeless people would rather remain that way than accept a hand up, it’s one of the hardest truths to embrace when it goes against everything you believe and work for.
But the higher value must always be for one’s autonomy and a respect for it. As with anyone, the first and best intervention is always and only to try to be a friend in a friendless world.
Meanwhile, here at Celebrate Recovery we are patient, knowing that while we aren’t God, we are each the pipeline to Him.
Pray for Sean. I think he’s close.